What Can Guys Do About an Unplanned Pregnancy?
Experiencing an unplanned pregnancy can be a scary time for women, but it can also be frightening for guys. You may be wondering how best to support your partner during this time and how you can take care of yourself.
Try to determine how you can help your partner with what you have, as well as how you can find the options information you need to help your partner make an informed decision. Continue reading to learn how to support your partner during the process.
How Can I Support My Partner?
Provide a Listening Ear
Your partner could feel confused and scared about her unplanned pregnancy, so one of the best things you can do is listen to her concerns. Provide the space she needs to be heard, and remind her that you’ll be there for her.
2. Research Options Information
Finding options information that talks about abortion, adoption, and parenting is a great place to start. Your partner will be grateful that you’ve done some of the research already and are willing to work together on this. Identifying resources and material support that she can use is also helpful.
3. Attend Appointments With Her
Feeling alone, especially during this time, is one of the worst feelings when your partner navigates an unplanned pregnancy. Offer to attend appointments at health clinics and local pregnancy centers with her. Your support will remind her she isn’t alone and has people on her side to help her through this.
4. Make the Decision Together
If your partner is open to this, consider participating in the decision process together. Weigh each of your options carefully and consider the implications of each one. When it comes time to decide, remind your partner that you’ve got her back and will be there with her.
Feeling Overwhelmed? We Can Help!
Looking for options information but unsure of where to begin? Zoe, A Women’s Center, is here for you! We provide free, evidence-based education with a caring advocate so that you can get the information you need. Moreover, we provide emotional support, educational courses, and material resources so that you can confidently decide.
Contact us today to schedule a confidential (according to Maine state law) appointment. We’re here for you and your partner!